आपकी मुस्कराहट

आपकी  मुस्कराहट

आपकी मुस्कुराहटों के पीछे

कई गलियां है

हर गली से हम वाकिफ है

 

जब चेहरे पे मुस्कान हो

और अगर आप आंखे बंद करों तो

तो हर नुक्कड़ पे

आप अगर हमें देखते हों

 

तो जाहीर है

आप सिर्फ हमकोही चाहते हों

अगर आपको कोई और दिखता है

तो आपकी ख्वाईशें बहोत बड़ी है

 

जब जिंदगी  बड़ी लगने  लगे

और अपने छोटे

तो  ख्वाईशें तकलीफ देने लगती है

और तकलीफ गलती करने के लिए

मजबूर करती है

सब गलत सही लगने लगता है

और सही गलत

अब अगर कोई अपना प्यार भी करे

तो जिंदगी पे वार लगता है

अब फैसला आपका है

हम जो आपसे प्यार करते है

और वह जो आपको चूसना चाहता है

लेकिन गलत सही होता है

और हम सही में गलती कर बैठते है

 

गलती गलती है

एक न एक दिन पकड़ी जाती है

अब हम बवाल करते है

हमारी गलतियां हमें परेशान करती है

गलती मानना या फिर काफिर होना

अब भी फैसला आपका ही है

अब तो अपने परायें लगने लगते है

और पराया अपना

 

सब ऐसाही सोचते है

मैं भी अलग नहीं

लेकिन अगर मुझे अलग करना है

और अच्छा भी सच्चा भी

 

तो एक माफी तो बनती है

अगर मैं भी बवाल करूँ

तो ना जवाब है ना सवाल

मुझे गुस्से को ना और प्यार को हाँ  कहना है

 

बहोत मुश्किल है

खुद को इतना दबाना

की परबत ज़मीं बन जाये

और तूफ़ान भगवान्

 

बहोत मुश्किल है

आपकी मुस्कुराहटों के पीछे

कई गलियां है

हर गली से हम वाकिफ है

आखरी मौका the last chance to survive relationship

आखरी मौका 

आप हमसे दूर होके 

क्या हासील करोगे

हम तो आप मी ही बस 

पुरे ही समा गये है 

जन्नोचाहत कहाँ है 

दोनो हमको ही ढूंढना है 

क्या दूसरा कोई  काफिर

ये शतरंज में जीत रहा है ?

सोचोगी तुम जब ये 

आजकी हालात क्या है ?

तब समझोगी तुम ये 

की हम आपके ही है 

जाने कौन वह आपकी 

ज़िंदगी में झाँक रहा है 

हम जानते है की वह 

सिर्फ आपको जाँच रहा है 

अगर आप सच में हमारी है 

तो हमारा वादा आपसे ही है

के हम और हमारी मौत 

बस आपसे ही है 

बस आपसे ही है 

गलतियां काफी की है हमने 

मगर आप भी तो गलत थी 

अब एक आखरी मौक़ा है 

अब एक आखरी मौका है 

पुरानी बातों को छोडके 

फिर एक बार शुरू से शुरू करे 

फिर एक बार फिर से प्यार करे 

आप हम से और हम आपसे 

आप हमसे और हम आपसे 

अब आखरी बार ऐसे बिलगते है ना 

 की चाहे कोई भी हो आपका या हमारा 

कहेंगे छोड़ो प्यार को या फिर जिल्लत को 

हम अपनाएंगे अपने सबसे बड़े प्यार को 

अपने सबसे बड़े प्यार को 

यह विचार उनके लिए है जो ये सोचते है की अब कुछ नहीं हो सकता. जितना ही है तो हम जीतेंगे जो रिलेशनशीप में है. जिन्होंने रिलेशनशीप का कचरा किया है उनको सबक सिखाते है 

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जिल्लत की बावड़ी

कल ही एक दोस्त का फोन आया 

बहोत दुखी था 

दोस्त ने ऐसी दास्ताँ बताई की कवाली तड़प उठी 

जिल्लत की बावड़ी 

याद रखना हमें , आप याद रखना 

हम तो कुत्ते है फिर भी आप हमें याद रखना 

हमने तो आपको सिर्फ वक्त ही दिया है 

उसने तो आपको खुद का खून दिया है 

फिर भी आपको हम ये कहते है 

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

फितरत में हमारी है की हम हमेशा चाटते है 

आपको अगर वक्त और नशा चाहिए 

तो हम एक पैर पर नाचते है 

झूठ बोलेंगे हम आपसे 

जितना प्यार आपको हमसे है 

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

आजकल ये नई राह है 

हर किसीको दूसरे की चाह है 

दूसरा ही ख़ुशनवाब है 

दूसरा ही ऐशमवाल है 

अब तो जिल्लत की ये ज़िंदगी उसके ही नाम है 

हम तो कुत्ते होकर भी हमारी वो चाट रही है

झूठ बोलेंगे हम आपसे 

जितना प्यार आपको हमसे है  

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

आप हमको ही याद रखना 

गलती है किसकी ये जब सोचते है तो 

हमें लगता की उसकी प्यारीसी पूरी पागल है 

जब वो करे प्यार तो ये जिम्मेदारी समझती है 

जिम्मेदार को ही जिल्लत की बावड़ी में फेक देती है 

जिम्मेदार को ही जिल्लत की बावड़ी में फेक देती है 

ये कवाली उनके नाम जो अपनी फॅमिली के लिए दिन और रात एक करते है 

लेकिन रात कुछ लोगो को ऐसा तोहफा देती है की जिम्मेदार जिल्लत की बावड़ी में खुद का खून कर लेता है 

ऐसे मौके पर जिसे तोहफा मिलता है वो ये कह रहा है , लेकिन उसका बुरा समय बहोत पास है ...बहोत पास 

अगर आप में से कोई इस तोहफे का इफ्तियार कर रहा है ..तो सावधान ...

जिम्मेदारी निभानेवाला बस एक वक़्त ही तो नहीं दे पाता है 

समझने वालों को इशारा काफी है 

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Hidden Hate & Exposed Reality (लपलेले द्वेष आणि उघड सत्यता)

There was a king of prosperous kingdom. In this kingdom, there was one carpenter who used to create sandalwood idols. Whatever small waste of sandalwood, he used to throw in one bin. While throwing it, he used to think, “I would give it for funeral ceremony of my king." One day the king was on the walk to enquire well being of all. When the king arrived near carpenter's shop, he had an eye to eye contact with carpenter. Suddenly the king started feeling uncomfortable and without talking to carpenter the king left the shop. Carpenter was very disappointed. Carpenter could not sleep for days. His health started deteriorating. He went to one Sadhu and narrated the entire story. Sadhu asked him, "What you used to think while throwing the sandalwood pieces?" Carpenter disclosed, "I used to think that i would give it for the king's funeral ceremony." Sadhu went into trance.  After five minutes he opened his eyes and uttered, "every time whatever we think, these thoughts are arises from the subconscious mind and have superpower to reach to concerned soul. Your though was negative and you made it stronger day by day enough to get transmitted and received by the king's soul." Carpenter nodded with great pain. Carpenter asked Sadhu for the solution. Sadhu assertively explained, “from today whenever you will throw pieces of sandalwood, think that, you would make ornaments from sandalwood pieces and gift it to the king." Carpenter got enlightened and expressed gratitude for resolution by Sadhu. Now carpenter initiated to think to make ornaments for the king out of waste sandal wood. One year passed. As per the ritual the king was again on the walk to talk to people of kingdom. The moment he reached near the shop of carpenter, both the king and carpenter had eye to eye contact. The moment, the king got down from his Chariot and hugged carpenter. Carpenter started weeping with happiness. Carpenter gifted the ornaments to the king. In return carpenter got a gift of one million gold coins from the king.

Moral of the Story

1. The scenario in regards to close friends, Husband-wife, child-parents, employee-employer is most critical.

2. Nobody is perfect and we should be mature enough to accept imperfections of our close associate with positive thought.

3. Whenever we gossip, especially in absence of the individual about whom we are gossiping, we shall always talk good about him or her.

4. Sometime we care to listen only one side of the story and make an opinion. This is most lethal approach as we are murdering the close association of our close associate.

5. The best is let two close associates whom have issues, resolve their own issues in first phase. If still problem persists, someone unbiased personnel shall listen and opine positively. Final phase is these two close associates should take a positive decision by accepting their own problems. In the final phase, we should listen and accept the problem shared by opposite associate. Once we accept the mistake, then sprinkling of resolutions start coming out of our divine mind.

6. If you make a mistake, never justify why you was right to make that mistake. Acceptance shall be complete. The consequences of this positive acceptance will only be positive, isn't it?

7. Any critical relation mentioned above need considerate understanding of both sides as its not two but many relations dependent on these indirect relations are at stake.

Dr Mangesh Virkar

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लपलेले द्वेष आणि उघड सत्यता

एक समृद्ध राज्याचा राजा होता. या राज्यात, एक सुतार होता जो चंदनच्या मूर्ती तयार करीत असे. चंदनाचे  छोटेसे राहिलेले तुकडे तो एका डब्यात टाकत असे. ते फेकताना तो विचार करायचा, "मी माझ्या राजाच्या अंत्यविधीसाठी देईन." एक दिवस राजा प्रजेच्या चौकशीसाठी फिरायला आला होता. राजा सुतारांच्या दुकानाजवळ आला तेव्हा राजाने आणि सुताराने एकमेकांकडे पहिले. अचानक राजा अस्वस्थ होऊ लागला आणि सुताराशी बोलल्याशिवाय राजा दुकानातून निघून गेला. सुतार खूप निराश झाला. सुतार बरेच दिवस झोपू शकला नाही. त्याची प्रकृती खालावू लागली. तो एका साधूकडे गेला आणि त्याने सर्व कथा सांगितली. साधूने त्याला विचारले, "चंदनाचे तुकडे टाकताना तुला काय वाटायचे?" सुताराने  खुलासा केला, "मला वाटायचं की मी राजाच्या अंत्यविधीसाठी देईन." साधू समाधीत गेला. पाच मिनिटांनंतर त्याने आपले डोळे उघडले व उच्चारले, “प्रत्येक वेळी जे काही आम्हाला वाटते ते विचार अवचेतन मनापासून उद्भवतात आणि संबंधित आत्म्याकडे जाण्यासाठी महाशक्ती असतात. तुमचा विचार नकारात्मक होता आणि तुम्ही हा नकारात्मक विचार दिवसेंदिवस करून अधिक संक्रमित होण्यास प्रवृत्त केले  आणि राजाच्या आत्म्याने त्याला प्राप्त केले." सुताराने  मोठ्या वेदनांनी होकार दिला. सुताराने साधूंकडे तोडगा मागितला. साधूंनी ठामपणे सांगितले, "आजपासून तू जेव्हा चंदनाचे तुकडे फेकशील तेव्हा तू असा विचार कर की तू  टाकाऊ  लाकडाचे दागिने बनवून राजाला देशील." सुतार प्रबुद्ध झाला आणि साधूने केलेल्या ठरावाबद्दल कृतज्ञता व्यक्त केली. आता सुताराने टाकाऊ चंदनाच्या लाकडातून राजासाठी दागिने बनवण्याचा विचार सुरू केला. एक वर्ष उलटले. विधीनुसार राजा पुन्हा राज्यातील लोकांशी बोलण्यासाठी फिरत होता. ज्या क्षणी तो सुताराच्या दुकानाजवळ पोहोचला त्या क्षणी राजा आणि सुतार दोघांनीही एकमेकांकडे पहिले. त्याच क्षणी, राजा आपल्या रथातून खाली उतरला आणि सुतारला मिठी मारला. सुतार आनंदाने रडू लागला. सुताराने चंदनाच्या तुकड्यांचे दागदागिने राजाला भेट म्हणून दिले. त्या बदल्यात सुताराला राजाकडून दहा लाखांच्या सोन्याची नाणी भेट मिळाली.

मतितार्थ

१. जवळचे मित्र, पती-पत्नी, मुले-पालक, कर्मचारी-नियोक्ता यांच्या नाते-संदर्भातील परिस्थिती सर्वात गंभीर आहे.

२. कोणीही परिपूर्ण नाही आणि आपण आपल्या निकटवर्तीयांचा अपूर्णपणा स्वीकारण्यास पुरेसे प्रौढ किंवा सज्ञान असले पाहिजे.

३.जेव्हा आपण आपल्या निकटवर्तीयांच्या अनुपस्थित गप्पा मारतो , आपण नेहमीच त्याच्याबद्दल किंवा तिच्याबद्दल चांगले बोलायला हवे .

४.कधीकधी आम्ही कथेची फक्त एकच बाजू ऐकतो आणि एक मत देतो. आपल्या सर्वात जवळच्या  सहकार्यासाठी हा प्राणघातक हल्ला आहे.

५. दोन जवळचे सहकारी ज्यांना समस्या आहेत त्यांनी त्यांचे स्वतःचे प्रश्न पहिल्या टप्प्यात सोडवावेत हा सर्वोत्कृष्ट पर्याय आहे. अद्याप समस्या कायम राहिल्यास, निःपक्षपाती व्यक्ती निवडावी , जी समस्या  ऐकून सकारात्मक विचार करतील. अंतिम टप्पा म्हणजे या दोन निकटवर्तीयांनी त्यांच्या स्वतःच्या समस्या स्वीकारून सकारात्मक निर्णय घ्यावा.

६. शेवटच्या टप्प्यात, आम्ही आपल्या सहकाऱ्याद्वारे सामायिक केलेली समस्या ऐकणे आणि स्वीकारणे आवश्यक आहे. एकदा आपण चूक मान्य केल्यास आपल्या दिव्य मनातून ठराव शिंपडणे सुरू होते. वर नमूद केलेल्या कोणत्याही गंभीर नात्याला दोन्ही बाजूंनी विचार करणे आवश्यक आहे कारण ते दोन नाही परंतु या अप्रत्यक्ष संबंधांवर अवलंबून असलेले बरेच संबंध धोक्यात आहेत.

७. जर आपण चुकत असाल तर, आपली तू चूक कुठल्या परिस्थितीमुळे झाली याचे औचित्य साधू नका. स्वीकृती पूर्ण असेल तर भविष्य छान असेल. या सकारात्मक स्वीकृतीचे परिणाम केवळ सकारात्मकच  असतील, नाही का?

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Hidden Hate & Exposed Reality

लपलेले द्वेष आणि उघड सत्यता

Let's Listen, Think and Analyse 18 Versions of Relationship Issues

Let's Listen, Think and Analyse 18 Versions of Relationship Issues

Long time i have been busy and could not strike anything to post. Relationship issues are common now a days. The only reason of progression towards worst nature are two different parties listen the issues, Imperfect analysis and Bias. If the listening party is single, unbiased and professionally competent, then there are high chances that these wonderful relationships can go long. All issues has 18 versions. Nine Versions From each of the Spouse.

Husband Version 1: True Story to the fullest

Husband Version 2 : False added to True Story

Husband Version 3: Attached Past Good or Bad Experience

Husband Version 4: Comparison with an Affair

Husband's Mom Version 5

Husband's Dad Version 6

Husband's Brothers version 7

Husband's Sisters Version 8

Husband's Friends Version 9

Wife Version 1: True Story to the fullest

Wife Version 2 : False added to True Story

Wife Version 3: Attached Past Good or Bad Experience

Wife Version 4: Comparison with an Affair

Wife's Mom Version 5

Wife's Dad Version 6

Wife's Brothers version 7

Wife's Sisters Version 8

Wife's Friends Version 9

The above images are self explanatory and prove the following conclusion of 7 Wonderful Reactions by Husband & WIFE

1. Maturity comes through learning. Lets be mature enough to handle the relationships.

2. if both ONLY husband and Wife Discuss the issues cleverly, many issues can be sorted out. Lets stop taking advice from friends, relatives and affair.

3. NOT GIVING GOOD SEX is punishment for one and revenge for another. Rather lets use this very natural weapon to defeat bad consequences in future. If You are very angry, then, have best possible sex, better than Your Affair..I mean it ...But happens reverse...Please avoid..

4. Share Your expectations with Your Spouse clearly. Be very true and Clear. No False impressions by friends, relatives and an affair.

5. Do not listen to Your DAD, MOM, SISTER, BROTHER or FRIEND....Just Listen to your MIND

6. Super Sex Resolves Everything and Let's Not Repeat MISTAKE

7. Stop Objecting on Addictions as its Genetic Tendency. If you STOP monitoring and forcing to STOP and initiate giving GOOD SEX, has a 30% probability that your she or he will stop but 100 % probability that he or she will reduce the frequency and intensity of it. Please never make an issue of addictions of each other. Resolve it through series of discussions and supersex.

Dr Mangesh Virkar

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Business Baby Steps : Excellent Contribution to QMS (The Quality Management System)

Phase 1: Conception

This phase will stimulate you to think right. Conception is a medical word. When millions of sperms flow towards an ovum, only a few thousand actually plan to fertilise it. Few hundred could execute the plan and find a right place on the ovum. Finally, only one successfully fertilises the ovum to create a HUMAN. When we start a business, a similar situation arises where we have to win against millions. When we think ‘business’, our optimism and over-confidence might get us onto an island where we are not happy. Realistic thinking, aligned with superb product knowledge and blended with meticulous financial analysis, could be used for developing a successful business plan.

Phase 2: Birth

When a baby spends nine long months inside the uterus, it evolves the perfect plan to survive in this external world. It has immunity to fight against germs; it has the capability to dream and learn for survival. The more time we spend in conception (realistic thinking and appropriate planning), the better we will be in the birth phase. The milestones acquired by full-term babies become challenges for premature babies, and the struggle starts. In this phase, you will learn eight steps to set your team of business on the path of profit. You also will learn how to achieve immunity against competition and internal business issues that arise due to variations in product quality.

Phase 3: Observe & Learn

A five-year-old observes and learns very fast due to enthusiasm about what others are doing and trying to find out whether it could be done in a better way. This inherent capability comes from its time in the womb. Any business without vision, core values and mission will carry the risk of uncertainties and failure. In this session, you will learn how to set the right vision, core values and mission for your business.

Phase 4: Plan Your Contribution

As a child grows and reaches its teenage phase, it starts expressing future plans, career options, and a standby career if it fails in the one it was interested in. The knowledge gained is the product and the teenage phase is one where you create plans on where to sell this product to get profit. In this phase, you will learn to plan your existing products’ quality. You will learn how to sustain quality of products through appropriate written planning and standardising the good practices through super documentation practices.

Phase 5: Enhance Skills

The small kid who is transformed into a capable young adult is ready to contribute effectively, but he starts to face competition from experts in the environment. Many young adults succumb to the competition and lose confidence to follow their dream. Disorientation results in mistakes, followed by dissatisfaction. Few successful young adults keep achieving greater success. In this phase, you will learn how to differentiate your product in the market through enhancing your organisation’s skills through monitoring your established plans, processes and product specifications. This skill will help you to identify opportunities to check and upgrade your quality management system.

Phase 6: Self-Reliance

The successful young adult acclimatised for the learn-and-earn cycle starts concentrating on investment for retirement, buying home, marriage and settlement for happiness. This desire to be self-sufficient paves the foundation for a healthy and happy long life. In this phase, you will learn various methods to determine the stability and reliability of your business through unbiased reviews. The review will not only help to boost the confidence of the business, but also determine clues to be self-sufficient  to achieve long term sustainability and profitability.

Phase 7: Sustain Phase

The successful young adults are now happy, stable and experienced citizens concentrating on contributing to the community through philanthropic approach, which gives them peace and popularity. They become health conscious and starts spending more time on meditatation, performing yoga and helping the younger generation to be like them for strengthening their surroundings. In this phase, you will learn methods that will enable you to determine your level of success and modulate your business. You will make headway in making your business a brand that will live longer than you.

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Dr Mangesh Virkar

Sustainable Living

Life is nature’s gift to mankind in our galaxy where ‘Our Earth’ is the only planet where life exists. The effort made by scientists to find out life on nearby planets is futile at this point. Are we got bugged off our beautiful planet EARTH? Or we have come to the conclusion that we cannot create a sustainable living on the earth? The dream of shifting ourselves to another planet is definitely arduous. Ultimately living within earth’s limit is the best option available at this point.

Resource allocation is huge responsibility. The gap between the poor and rich is increasing day by day. The governance and administration need to re-look their standards through the perspective of basic needs of the life. The harmonization of basic needs of life and standards of governance and administration should bring a positive change. The critical resources like water, electricity, and clean air have been a challenge since decades. Industrialization and technology with radiations is a sword with two very sharp edges, which is cutting these critical resources, to make unaffordable for common man. The resistance of the governance and administration to take appropriate actions and legislation over the use of these critical resources is avoidable challenge.

We all and concerned educated groups should seriously start working on educating all human species about utilizing the critical resources. Lack of stringent monitoring on utilization of the critical resources is popularly discussed and religiously neglected. Solutions are suggested, but lack of action on these vital suggestions will create the biggest threat, “elimination of life from the earth”.

Lack of definition of simple living and lack of control over manufacturing and production is another big challenge. The availability of the products which are defined as simple and have least impact on the critical resources to each and every piece of life is responsibility of each national body. The research and development of such simple products should be promoted and adequate environment should be created to enable manufacturing of such simple products.

We all love nature and it seems that nature allows us to take disadvantage of available resources. Sometimes I dream if nature would speak up and whether it would respect us? We never think what we are doing with nature? We would have been extinguished from this beautiful planet if nature has capabilities to do so.

If we consider this is the project, we might require millions of project managers and we have millions who do not have jobs. To train these all the millions of project managers, we require billions of trainers and we have billions of invested on unsafe projects. To train these trainers, we require trillions of schools and colleges and we have trillions of kids not going to school. We're lucky, nature is not monitoring our activities on the scale of good or bad.

The reproduction is one of the basic needs and requirement of the life and with this authority and capability one great responsibility follows, "we should ensure our future generation should equally able to enjoy this beautiful planet ‘Earth’." This generation is busy in damaging their DNA by using an inadvertent technology and neglecting vital healthy lifestyle which accommodates good sleep, good food, and good health. 

Overall, we are heading towards a big accident, elimination of life from the earth. At this point I strongly feel that it has become irreversible now. The maximum we can do is to try sustaining some more time to accommodate a few more generations which can enjoy this beautiful planet.